When you want to hate someone for what they did to you, feel sorry for them. They are thinking of self. They do so often to get attention because they didn’t get it anywhere else. They are worse off than you are if they degrade you. Really. They are.

When someone shows hate to you or lack of concern, this too is their lack of compassion and love. Give them something rather than hate back. Don’t ever beg. Don’t ever NEED someone SO badly, you create a monster of depression for yourself.

And whatever you do…realize you’re number one on God’s list. But you won’t know this if you don’t take the time to stop and not ask him for things…but listen for his guidance. To receive it, you can’t retain hate, resentment, bitterness. You gotta let go and take life as it comes. Forget the past Bea. It’s all over, you can’t change the past. Right? If someone is in love, let them go and if they come back to you, it was meant to be. If not, move on. In time, you’ll find the one who WILL come back to you. Now THAT person is the one to begin to think about. Cause if he’s not here now, he’ll be there later.

Most of all, have faith. Think positively. Don’t focus on the negatives. You’re better than to waste your time with such things. Aren’t you? I know I am. And I let things pass me right on by. Tomorrow is a new day. We create our own monsters. We also create our own future. We either can live life, hate it or love it. I choose to love it and seek out my goals. Love my wife every day as if I could be gone tomorrow because I could be. And by that…I am thankful I have this day to enjoy time with her…and my kids. I don’t like my job Bea, but when I leave it, I leave it behind. And my focus isn’t on my job, it’s on what I have plans for my future. And I never give up hope. I keep striving for something better the next day. I keep invisioning a great future. Right now it’s good. But later it will be great. I know this and I think it daily. We are what WE think WE are. If we hate others, we hate ourselves. If we hate life, we hate ourselves and are bitter to others. Don’t be like these types.

You are better than that. Let the past be the past. Live for today and tomorrow. Who knows…something new and great might be just right around the corner and you might not even know it. Someone else greater may be waiting to come into your life and you might not even know it. I am a firm believer that who we meet and all we do is NOT conicidence. Nor…all that we hear and learn or get from others. It all happens for a reason. And I believe too…it is all planned by someone greater than us. God. He’s watching ya Bea. Don’t let yourself down but most of all…don’t let Him down.

Storm